Picture this: You’re in bed with your lover. You want to enjoy yourself... but your brain won't. stop. spinning. 🤦🏻♀️
Here's what women keep telling me:
And babe, this isn’t a personal failure.
- “I can’t get out of my head.”
- “I feel pressure to perform.”
- “My whole body wants more touch before penetration.”
- “I want to feel connected and safe — not rushed.”
- “I’m exhausted after work — sex feels like a chore."
Sound familiar? You're not alone.
Culture taught you to hustle, perform, and please at all costs.
Fake it till you make it! Ignore your feelings! Push through!
Purity culture said your body was dangerous.
Hustle culture told you rest is weakness.
These messages got hard-wired into your nervous system, so you learned to brace for impact—instead of opening to connection.
No wonder surrender feels out of reach.
But here’s the truth:
💥 You are not broken. Your body is just doing what it was taught.
🧠 And the good news? You can learn a new way.
It’s conditioning.
What if you could stop performing sex... and start experiencing it instead?
