Hi, I'm Sarah

A slice OF MY STORY

It all started with a suitcase full of Vogue magazines that I took to Grandma's house for Christmas.

I was 11! Forget packing practical things; what I wanted to fuel my holiday season was this foraged stack of vintage Vogues.

These sexy, glossy pages activated that juicy turn-on. It's in these pages that I began learning about sex and style and what we're made for.

Since then, I’ve been on a trajectory to help women like you tap into your turn-on.

Style is my superpower.
Sex is the fuel that powers life.

In 2009, I became an Image Consultant / Wardrobe Stylist. After climbing the fashion ladder, I went from steaming garments in the basement to being a Styling Assistant and ultimately Lead Stylist, where I set the mood for a publicly traded website. Since then, I've styled 5000+ photo shoots and have dressed thousands of bodies.

My work has been published in magazines and seen by millions. Between a full time job and a part time side hustle, my body started showing signs of rupture, so I stepped away from corporate life.

When the world saw its shadow in 2020, I pivoted into the field of sex coaching. I’ve studied with some of the most reputable names in the industry to bring you proven processes that can change your life... and awaken your deepest desires.

And this, dear one, led me to you.

I spent the last 20 years studying human sexuality to help my romantic relationship thrive. (Spoiler: the relationship didn’t last, but my career grew from its ashes. RIP. ❤️‍🩹) In 2021, I minted it with a VITA 650-Hour Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification, solidifying my commitment to this journey.

I’ve been a devotee to the sensual art of flamenco dancing since 2001. When I was 16, I began teaching in the arts and over the years, have taught thousands of women like you.

After growing up in a religion steeped in strict rules and purity culture, I felt like my body was a gated community that I didn’t have the code for. So I hopped the fence. (Obvi the short version!) The last decade has been a deep reclamation of the erotic and a sacred homecoming.

as seen in:

The Experience

In case you were wondering what it's like to be a fly on the wall in a session...

In the VITA™ methodology the guides my ethos, desire takes the driver’s seat. Ask yourself: what is it that you want, more than anything in the world? Together, we'll cultivate your desires, activating them in you, envisioning them in crystalline detail, and then set about bringing them into being on this 3D plane.

Sometimes, a limiting belief or old story may stand in the way of your dream life. Don’t panic when something comes up. Identifying these blocks is an integral part of the process! With the support of modern neuroscience and ancient tantric tools, we clear these blocks and any residual charge.

Along the way, things may get sticky. You may doubt your ability to navigate this journey and wonder if it's worth it. If you were doing this solo, this is the part where you'd want to throw in the towel.

It's where the rubber meets the road: you have me in your corner to remind you how far you’ve come – and serve as proof that it’s possible to neutralize our personal Goliaths.

Girl, you got this. And I’ve got you.

you're wondering, i can tell. here's my street cred:

VITA Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching with Layla Martin

The VITA™ Coaching Methodology is a transformational process designed to heal and awaken sexuality. Grounded in modern science and enriched by ancient Tantric and Daoist wisdom, this powerful methodology employs holistic tools like breathwork, pleasure practices, trauma healing, meditation, energy work, sounding, and movement to address and resolve even the deepest sexual issues, empowering you to reclaim your pleasure and intimacy.

Erotic Blueprints Certification with Jaiya

As a coach in the Erotic Blueprints™ framework, I help clients navigate their sexual desires and preferences through this transformative system—think of it as a Myers-Briggs type personality test for the bedroom. This comprehensive approach is more than a simple quiz; it provides a deep understanding of what turns you on, how to effectively communicate your needs and desires, and how to foster intimacy and connection with your partner(s). By exploring your blueprint, you can create more fulfilling sexual encounters and enriching relationships.

The Science of Pleasure with Dr. Isabela Bottura

This is where sex meets science. Under Dr. Bottura's guidance, I became health-informed and knowledgeable about common gynecological issues, enabling me to support clients with critical aspects such as the anatomy of pleasure, the different types of orgasms, menstrual cycles, contraception, STI prevention, and integrative sexual health for women of all ages, ensuring a comprehensive understanding of sexual well-being.

Visual Design with Judith Rasband, Certified Image Master

The clothes we wear shape how others perceive us. In this Master's level program at the Conselle Institute, I explored the sociology and psychology of style. I learned the language of clothing, helping you communicate who you are, without even having to speak. The body speaks volumes, and so does your personal image.

The Primer

Never met a lavender latte I didn't like, veteran karaoke crooner, flamenco dancer

As a second-generation Chinese-Canadian and an immigrant to America, I embody the duality of my Gemini spirit—the first air sign of the Zodiac. As an influential first-born, I bridge the worlds of the living and the unseen. Ruled by Mercury, I’m here as a messenger, wielding words as tools for transformation.

What I'm

loving

Eight years ago after I stepped away from my faith, my first act of sovereignty was scheduling a boudoir session. In the planning, I was turned on for 3 weeks straight. 10/10, highly recommend.

What I'm

learning

I have been a devotee of flamenco dance for 20+ years. Through this fiery form of dance, I tap into my sensuality, joy, sadness and rage. Flamenco is an avenue for the goddess to live through me.

where i

live

The desert is sacred space. It's where you go to strip everything away and return to what matters most. It's a place to commune with the divine. If you can thrive here, you can thrive anywhere.

what I

believe

Every single person on the planet is capable of toe-curling pleasure that will light them up from the inside out. Pleasure is the most potent manifestation tool we have. Let me teach you!

dancing flamenco is flirting with an entire room

Felt cute, might delete later
(Who am I kidding, I won't)

behind the curtain

Sarah Ward

People confide in me their secrets, sexcapades, and ask me for lube recommendations.
But it wasn't always this way.

I grew up in a super strict conservative religion that taught me my body was the enemy. (Spoiler: it's not.)

Through my journey I’ve learned that the body is an ally, an instrument, the portal to experience profound pleasure. The way we dress and adorn ourselves becomes an act of embodiment.

This somatic coaching methodology enabled me to surrender to embodied bliss. The body knows the way, it’s just a matter of remembering.

Let's remember together.

Lavender latte, or gin and tonic

Always Order Me A

Purity culture

I'm Over

Quality skincare and good shoes

Always Splurge On

Reinvent herself

Most Likely To

Women Who Run With the Wolves

Favorite Book

Sex magic ✨

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my vibe at a glance

let's work together

come home to your body

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FEEL AS GOOD AS YOU LOOK
lOOK AS GOOD AS YOU FEEL

Hi, I'm Sarah

It all started with a suitcase full of Vogue magazines that I took to Grandma's house for Christmas.

Since then, I’ve been on a trajectory to help women like you tap into your turn-on.

Style is my superpower.
Sex is the fuel that powers life.

you're wondering, i can tell. here's my street cred:

VITA Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching with Layla Martin

Erotic Blueprints Certification with Jaiya

The Science of Pleasure with Dr. Isabela Bottura

Visual Design with Judith Rasband, Certified Image Master

The Primer

Never met a lavender latte I didn't like, veteran karaoke crooner, flamenco dancer

Felt cute, might delete later
(Who am I kidding, I won't)

Sarah Ward

People confide in me their secrets, sexcapades, and ask me for lube recommendations.
But it wasn't always this way.

writing is therapy. enjoy some recent posts:

Proper Care and Feeding of A Pvssy

The Art of Receiving

The Truth About Waistbands and Your Pelvic Floor

FEEL AS GOOD AS YOU LOOKlOOK AS GOOD AS YOU FEEL

Hi, I'm Sarah

It all started with a suitcase full of Vogue magazines that I took to Grandma's house for Christmas.

Since then, I’ve been on a trajectory to help women like you tap into your turn-on.

Style is my superpower. Sex is the fuel that powers life.

you're wondering, i can tell. here's my street cred:

VITA Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching with Layla Martin

Erotic Blueprints Certification with Jaiya

The Science of Pleasure with Dr. Isabela Bottura

Visual Design with Judith Rasband, Certified Image Master

The Primer

Never met a lavender latte I didn't like, veteran karaoke crooner, flamenco dancer

Felt cute, might delete later (Who am I kidding, I won't)

Sarah Ward

People confide in me their secrets, sexcapades, and ask me for lube recommendations. But it wasn't always this way.

writing is therapy. enjoy some recent posts:

Proper Care and Feeding of A Pvssy

The Art of Receiving

The Truth About Waistbands and Your Pelvic Floor

FEEL AS GOOD AS YOU LOOK
lOOK AS GOOD AS YOU FEEL

Style is my superpower.
Sex is the fuel that powers life.

Felt cute, might delete later
(Who am I kidding, I won't)

People confide in me their secrets, sexcapades, and ask me for lube recommendations.
But it wasn't always this way.