The Portal
your source for the somatic sex education you never got.
If you pick up a copy of Cosmo or Men's Health, you'll learn sex technique and choreography.
But not the very thing that will allow your technique to land in your lover's body.
The portal
Modern sex education has failed us.
We focus so much on technique and positions – while ignoring the body entirely.
Unless a lover is present with you in the moment, then even the best technique can fall flat.
That's what makes The Portal unique.
Instead of a hyper focus on what to do, we'll let you know how to do it. The Portal is your source for somatic sex re-education.
what you'll find:
You'll get three live events each month:
- a somatic workshop to help you feel safe enough to surrender
- a sex technique workshop to help you become an unforgettable lover
- an erotic book / watch club, to help activate your turn-on and expand what you thought possible
Plus, a rich archive full of embodied sex education to help fill in the blanks.
Join a community of erotic seekers that are on a path to becoming free in both body and mind.
introducing the somatic sex membership
Upcoming Portal
offerings
Thursday, September 10th at 4:30pm PT / 7:30pm ET
Surrender isn't something you can simply will yourself into. (If you could, we wouldn’t need this workshop.) It's something your body and nervous system have to feel safe enough to do.
In this workshop, we'll look at why getting out of your head and into your body during sex is so much harder than it sounds — from spectatoring. to the way your nervous system decides, often without your permission, whether now is a safe time to let go.
Tuesday, September 15th at 4pm PT / 7pm ET
Orgasms are peak states of pleasure that are generally experienced in the genitals. But did you know that it's possible to circulate this pleasure to the rest of the body? Most of us just never learned how.
Before you can begin to circulate energy, you have to tune your instrument to be able to feel it. We'll start by establishing ways of noticing the subtle energy flowing through your body.
Wednesday, September 23rd at 5pm PT / 8pm ET
For our last book club before we shift into Watch Club, we're going out with a favorite: Call Me By Your Name, André Aciman's aching novel of first love and self-discovery — which also happens to be a stunning film.
You’ve got options of how to dive in: Read it, watch it, or both. However you partake, come ready to talk about longing, memory, and the particular ache of a love that shapes everything after it.
Meet your Headmistress, Sarah
I grew up in a religion steeped in purity culture, where my body felt like a gated community I didn't have the code for.
So I hopped the fence.
What followed was two decades of filling in the gaps — studying human sexuality, somatic coaching, and the erotic arts with some of the most respected names in the field.
I'm a Certified Sexologist with the American Board of Sexology, trained in the VITA™ Method and the Erotic Blueprints™. My methodology blends science, somatics, and soul — with the embodied presence of a professional flamenco dancer and lifelong educator.
None of us got the sex education we deserved. I'm here to fix that.
The Portal is where that happens.
I've been seeing someone who'd never orgasmed when we were in bed together.
After two sessions with Sarah, I applied what I'd learned and
she came
three times in one night!
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Let's get you dressed... and undressed.
And feel embodied every step of the way.
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