Sex toys are an incredible tool to activate different parts of your pleasure body. One of my readers said that with the Vivifie toy, she was able to unlock vaginal orgasms and blended orgasms.
A new toy can feel like a new lover. And if you’re partnered, a toy isn’t meant to replace anyone. Since our lives are full and desire levels vary, a toy is a tool for satisfaction on demand. It’s a fun thing to bring to a sexy context.
Bodies aren’t machines, so if an erection fades, as they sometimes do, a toy can step in for a spell and give your lover what they crave.
If you’ve been curious about sex toys but feeling intimidated by the options, I created something for you:
A Beginner’s Guide to Sex Toys is a robust, 40-page love letter to your erotic self. It breaks down:
- Toys for different genders and preferences
- How to choose body-safe materials (and avoid sticky, toxic ones)
- How to find the right lube for your toy — and your body
- The real difference between dildos, wands, vibes, and all the buzz in between
- Myth busters: will a vibrator break my clitoris?
I did all the research for you and compiled it in one place to make it nice and simple for you.
Because lbh: Google shouldn’t be your sex educator.
Here’s a sneak peek…
- Silicone mimics the feel of skin and is body-safe — but keep it away from silicone lube. Silicones don’t play well together.
- Borosilicate glass is shatter-proof and delivers weighty, sensual pressure.
- Crystal toys aren’t just pretty — they bring a sacred energy to your solo rituals.