The Portal
your source for the somatic sex education you never got.
If you pick up a copy of Cosmo or Men's Health, you'll learn sex technique and choreography.
But not the very thing that will allow your technique to land in your lover's body.
The portal
Modern sex education has failed us.
We focus so much on technique and positions – while ignoring the body entirely.
Unless a lover is present with you in the moment, then even the best technique can fall flat.
That's what makes The Portal unique.
Instead of a hyper focus on what to do, we'll let you know how to do it. The Portal is your source for somatic sex re-education.
what you'll find:
You'll get three live events each month:
- a somatic workshop to help you feel safe enough to surrender
- a sex technique workshop to help you become an unforgettable lover
- an erotic book / watch club, to help activate your turn-on and expand what you thought possible
Plus, a rich archive full of embodied sex education to help fill in the blanks.
Join a community of erotic seekers that are on a path to becoming free in both body and mind.
introducing the somatic sex membership
Upcoming Portal
offerings
Thursday, November 5th at 5pm PT / 8pm ET
When we think of our healing as one more thing to do on your to-do list, this is the sort of thing that can send you into a spiral. Nervous system work isn’t just one more box that you have to check off.
This month, we are practicing being with the discomfort without rushing into finding a solution for the pain or suffering. In this moment, you can lay back to receive and let yourself feel whatever is here to be felt. You’re not alone — I’ll be there with you every step of the way.
Wednesday, November 11th at 5pm PT / 8pm ET
Sex toys are an important way that we experience pleasure solo. So then why is it so challenging for us to bring these tools into the bedroom with a lover? We don’t get intimated by using power tools that help with precision and speed. So let’s adopt that same attitude with tools in the bedroom.
We’ll explore different toy types for different bodies and parts and was that we can introduce them with a partner, without killing the vibe.
Wednesday, November 18th at 5pm PT / 8pm ET
An ostracized unmarried woman living in a conservative village desires a partner, so she hires her local basket maker to create her a husband out of wicker. What follows is a love story for the ages.
Based on the short story, “The Wicker Husband” by Ursula Wills-Jones, Wicker is out in theaters. Take yourself (and your partner!) to see this fantasy romance movie.
Meet your Headmistress, Sarah
I grew up in a religion steeped in purity culture, where my body felt like a gated community I didn't have the code for.
So I hopped the fence.
What followed was two decades of filling in the gaps — studying human sexuality, somatic coaching, and the erotic arts with some of the most respected names in the field.
I'm a Certified Sexologist with the American Board of Sexology, trained in the VITA™ Method and the Erotic Blueprints™. My methodology blends science, somatics, and soul — with the embodied presence of a professional flamenco dancer and lifelong educator.
None of us got the sex education we deserved. I'm here to fix that.
The Portal is where that happens.
I've been seeing someone who'd never orgasmed when we were in bed together.
After two sessions with Sarah, I applied what I'd learned and
she came
three times in one night!
Favorites Portal
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How to give unforgettable handjobs
asking for what you want in the bedroom
Butt stuff
what your nervous system has to do with your orgasm
how to give and receive vaginal orgasms
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Let's get you dressed... and undressed.
And feel embodied every step of the way.
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