The Portal
your source for the somatic sex education you never got.
If you pick up a copy of Cosmo or Men's Health, you'll learn sex technique and choreography.
But not the very thing that will allow your technique to land in your lover's body.
The portal
Modern sex education has failed us.
We focus so much on technique and positions – while ignoring the body entirely.
Unless a lover is present with you in the moment, then even the best technique can fall flat.
That's what makes The Portal unique.
Instead of a hyper focus on what to do, we'll let you know how to do it. The Portal is your source for somatic sex re-education.
what you'll find:
You'll get three live events each month:
- a somatic workshop to help you feel safe enough to surrender
- a sex technique workshop to help you become an unforgettable lover
- an erotic book / watch club, to help activate your turn-on and expand what you thought possible
Plus, a rich archive full of embodied sex education to help fill in the blanks.
Join a community of erotic seekers that are on a path to becoming free in both body and mind.
introducing the somatic sex membership
Upcoming Portal
offerings
Tuesday, October 6th at 5pm PT / 8pm ET
What if the thing standing between you and more pleasure is grief that never had a chance to be felt? Grief is something we all carry, from the end of a relationship, to job loss. Grief can rise from a health diagnosis, or an aging body that doesn’t respond the way it used to.
When we don't give ourselves space for grief to be felt and processed, it holds on, and can keep us from feeling fully. Right now there's also a lot of collective grief coming up around sexuality, which makes this a good moment to gather and move some of it through together.
Thursday, October 23rd at 5pm PT / 8pm ET
When it comes to anal play, everyone can partake. Except the taboo around butt stuff being only for certain people might sway us from exploring what we could enjoy.
In this workshop, we’ll get practical, exploring anatomy, tantalizing toys, recommended hygiene, and what kind of lube will support your pleasure.
Whatever your gender or sexual orientation, you’ll feel empowered to explore butt stuff and to approach it with curiosity instead of tension.
Wednesday, October 28th at 5pm PT / 8pm ET
Against the backdrop of 1930s Chicago, Frankenstein’s monster implores a famous scientist to find him a companion. She brings a murdered woman back to life and this sparks a legendary romance — and radical social change.
Trigger warning:
There are portrayals of SA in this film. Please watch with care.
Meet your Headmistress, Sarah
I grew up in a religion steeped in purity culture, where my body felt like a gated community I didn't have the code for.
So I hopped the fence.
What followed was two decades of filling in the gaps — studying human sexuality, somatic coaching, and the erotic arts with some of the most respected names in the field.
I'm a Certified Sexologist with the American Board of Sexology, trained in the VITA™ Method and the Erotic Blueprints™. My methodology blends science, somatics, and soul — with the embodied presence of a professional flamenco dancer and lifelong educator.
None of us got the sex education we deserved. I'm here to fix that.
The Portal is where that happens.
I've been seeing someone who'd never orgasmed when we were in bed together.
After two sessions with Sarah, I applied what I'd learned and
she came
three times in one night!
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Let's get you dressed... and undressed.
And feel embodied every step of the way.
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